We all know NZ's pretty small - it's more like 2-degrees of separation here. So it's just a matter of linking up  our single mates so they can all chat together.

At CheckOutMyFriend™ anyone can join. Whether you're single and looking to suss out potential dates, or whether you want to add your single mate and tell NZ how great they are!

Everyone on-line at CheckOutMyFriend™ has been described by a friend as a pretty good sort, - and they're single too!

Everything published first has to be approved first by the single person, so nothing will go live without their go-ahead. There's no prudes here, but we're not into the filth of lots of other tacky sites. All photos and written content is checked by us here at COMF HQ. All this makes it safer, and when the singles on-line are recommended by friends there's way less chance of them being raging polygamists!

How does the site work?

How do you talk yourself up and seem half-pie attractive without sounding like a bit of a knob or worse, just plain boring? COMF is all about our mates talking us up and not having to do it ourselves. Oh, and the single person has to agree with the description before it goes live on the website. Trust us when someone else describes you, it makes for a much more interesting read!

After you've registered, both friends have login details so you can both search through the other singles profiles on-line. Your friend will be able to search for any potential suitors and recommend them to you. And when you're listed on the site no one can tell from looking at your profile if you initiated your registration, yourself, or a friend put you up to it. Phew!

I want to add my single mate and tell NZ how great they are!

Enter the wingman.

Friends know us better than anybody. And it's about time we pulled our weight and helped hook up our single mates... it's time for you to spread the love and help your mate make a match. Click here to sign them up

Your single mate will receive an email explaining how it works, and letting them know that you want to tell NZ what a cracking good sort they are. They just have to approve your description. If your friend isn't keen, then they can say no. If they're up for it, then they can add comments to what you've already written, and upload a photo.

After successfully joining, you'll be able to help with the matchmaking too. With your own private login details you can help suggest other members to your friend as would-be-potentials.

All parties' personal details remain private. There are no email addresses or other information other than your first name and region/city listed. Members can only message you through this site. See Privacy Policy and Safety and Site Etiquette guide for more info.

I'm single so how do I get started?

Easy. You just need to add in a few personal details and choose a good friend to describe you. An e-mail will be sent to your friend asking for their help to describe you. You then approve what they've written, upload/change a photo and voila, it's all sorted! Remember nothing goes live on the site until you approve it. Click here to sign up

People will never know who initiated the sign-up process as on-line all the profiles look the same. It doesn't matter anyway as the key feature is that everyone is described by their friends!

All parties' personal details remain private. There are no email addresses or other information other than your first name and region/city listed. Members can only message you through this site. See our Privacy Policy and Safety and Site Etiquette for more info.

How much does it cost?

Currently the website if free to join & will remain so till we feel we've got a reasonable number of single people for you to meet. We can't eat baked beans forever, but we'll give you plenty of notice for when we do start charging. It won't be a rip off either. One months membership & will be cheaper than a round of drinks (i.e less than $30/mth). Don't muck around joining though, this really is the more the merrier!